Legacy Lane Project: Winning at Life

Thursday, August 14, 2025
 

 

Legacy Lane Project: Winning at Life
The Survivorship Story of Tanisha

 


Tanisha was used to being the strong one, the caretaker, the one others leaned on. But in January 2021, everything shifted. Just back in the classroom after Covid lockdowns, she stepped into her day as a teacher like any other. Then came the call. It was Watson Clinic. She already knew the answer. She had read the results in MyChart the night before. But hearing the words out loud - breast cancer - made it real.

She cried. Her mom cried. Her partner teacher prayed. And somehow, with a strength only survivors understand, Tanisha wiped her tears, pulled herself together, and finished teaching her students that day.

That was a Friday. She spent the weekend in silence, retreating inward to process. Not out of fear, but because stepping out of her role as the “strong one” was unfamiliar terrain. For the first time, she wasn’t the caregiver. She was the one being cared for.

Her world turned upside down. She had never spent a night in a hospital, and never had an IV while awake, until cancer. But what could have broken her instead revealed a new kind of power: the power of love, the power of presence, and the power of a village.

Her parents, both retired, stepped in and never left her side. Her mother became her constant companion, attending every appointment, surgery, and treatment. Her father, initially overwhelmed with emotion, became her steady rock by the time radiation began, sitting with her through all 35 sessions.

Her sisters moved in every chemo weekend, their kids in tow, turning Tanisha’s home into a sanctuary of care and laughter. Nine people filled the house, filling every crack with comfort. They cooked, pampered, made her laugh. Her nieces each found their role in her healing: hair washing, lotion applying, water fetching. No task was too small; no gesture went unnoticed.

It wasn’t just treatment. It was transformation. And when she finally crossed the finish line, surgery, chemo, radiation, recovery, she emerged not just healed but renewed.

That spirit of victory is captured in her photo shoot: covered in mud, sweat, and joy, just like the mud runs she now takes on as part of her reborn life. It's not about the mess; it’s about the win.

Because Tanisha is winning at life.

Cancer shifted her lens. She lives slower now. She leaves work on time. She wears no makeup with pride. She doesn’t sweat the small stuff. She thanks God not just for her healing, but even for the aches and pains, proof that she’s still here.

What could have been a season of suffering became a season of surrender, and in that surrender, she discovered something greater: gratitude, clarity, and a fierce sense of purpose.

Tanisha’s story is not just about endurance. It’s about being lifted, by faith, by family, by love. And now, every step she takes forward is a celebration of that truth.

Legacy Lane honors Tanisha, a woman who went from classroom leader to courageous warrior, who met cancer head-on and claimed victory with mud on her face and love at her back. Her journey reminds us that sometimes, the greatest wins come not despite the battle, but because of it.

*Special Thanks to The Well which allowed us to capture these images at their location, and to the Polk Arts & Cultural Alliance for making this project possible through a generous grant.




 
8/14/2025

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Response to: Legacy Lane Project: Winning at Life
Saturday, August 30, 2025
Tamekia williams says:

Tanisha is a strong amazing woman, a conqueror and also my cousin. I love her so abundantly and there’s nothing I wouldn’t do for her. She’s inspired me in so many ways and I’ve grown to learn to embrace the essence of now. Today, we honor not just survival—but strength, courage, and unyielding hope. To face cancer is to face one of life’s fiercest storms. But you did more than endure it. You stood in the eye of it. You fought with every fiber of your being. You held on through the darkest nights and believed in the dawn, even when it was hard to see. You are living proof that resilience isn’t just a word—it’s a heartbeat. This journey was never fair, never easy, and never asked permission. But you met it with grace and grit. Through fear, pain, and uncertainty, you never stopped showing up for life. And in doing so, you showed the resting of us what true bravery looks like. Your story is not just one of survival, but of inspiration. You remind us all that the human spirit is capa

Response to: Legacy Lane Project: Winning at Life
Sunday, September 7, 2025
Tamekia Dyer says:

Today, I want to take a moment to honor someone who means the world to me—my cousin, Tanisha. Watching you walk through one of life’s hardest battles with such courage, faith, and determination has been nothing short of inspiring. Cancer may have tested you, but it did not define you. Instead, you showed all of us what strength, perseverance, and hope truly look like. You never gave up, Even on the hardest days, you kept fighting—not just for yourself, but for everyone who loves you. You reminded us all that hope is powerful, that love is healing, and that family can carry each other through anything. Your journey has given us more than just relief that you are here and healthy—it has given us perspective. It’s a reminder to never take life for granted, to cherish every moment, and to celebrate the victories, big or small. You are living proof that miracles exist and that resilience can outshine fear. Cousin, I am so proud of you. I am grateful for the second chance we have to sh

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